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Could you tell if you found your Soul mate?

and what would you do to be with them? even if it meant travel overseas to be with them,....what a Christmas gift that would be!
send me a star for christmas,i live down under in Australia,Queensland to be exact.

Public Comments

1. It would be a really great Christmas gift, especially if you were both Jewish...

2. Yes you have found it if it is under your shoe mate!

3. I think it's possible to have several of them, and it's due to high compatibility.

4. I moved from Queensland Australia to Melbourne Australia (24hrs drive) for my soul mate.

Well worth it! :-) He's my puzzle piece :-)

5. yes I have and yes we both made a lot of sacrifices. After 3 years, changing jobs, moving house etc. we will finally be together for Christmas and forever.

6. It sounds like you already have a relationship in mind and you are seeking confirmation that "this is the one" and it is the right thing to do to go running off into the sunset to be with them.

The concept of "soul mates" is a bit overly romantic.

Make sure you are not confusing sexual desire, or romantic fantasy for love before you make any travel plans. Also make sure they actually want you to visit them before you show up on their doorstep.

7. if you found your soul mate, you dont have to ask if they really are your soul mate-- you just know! I think you would feel a need in your very own soul to be with them, I would travel across the world and back to be with mine. Soul mates complete each other in a way no one and nothing else ever could.

8. I think it is possible to have more than one soul mate come along in a lifetime. But, if I felt I had met a soul mate and was able, I would travel anywhere to be with that person.

9. Is that the person who just gets you without thinking about it,
and who will be there no matter what is happening.
Is that the one who feels so right to tell everything to, and can fill in the spaces, the one who truly knows how to listen and dosen't act like they are, just to have their say.
Is that the person who likes the same things you like, like rain on the roof, the first ice cream of summer, trees, waterfalls, clouds, and knows exactly the right thing to say.
Is that the one who never judges you, and helps you find what it is you need in that moment, and it feels like all the lumps have been dissolved and life is easier and fuller and brighter.
Is that the one who has values that are stable, you can trust totally, yet challenges you when you least expect it.
Is that the one who makes you want to lift higher, reach further, and together you can move mountains.

Yes, I will know, and I would move heaven and earth to live that life.

10. I would stop breathing, if it would bring my soul mate to me.

Of course, he might be disappointed to have waited all that time to only find a corpse bride waiting for him ><'

I can tell. When all your life you feel alone and unlike anyone else (not to sound emo, but I'm sure everyone has at least some of this insecurity deep inside them) and then they come along and you don't, that's when you begin to know. It helps if you lose them one day, only to realize how much you need them. Of course that only works if they come back too. For me, my soul mate was and is my best friend. I was blind to it for a while but now that I look back I see that he was/is everything I've ever wanted (right down to his lovely naturally pointed incisors) and, even moreso, everything I've ever needed.

I, the laziest member of my lazy family, will get a job and work nights while still attending college and making time for him and sacrificing almost all sleep to get him here with me. The sooner the better, there is something in me calling for him.

11. I gave you a star you asked for. I met my soul mate and lost her through my own stupidity over 40 years ago. I have never loved again and probably never will. In this life, maybe in the next one?

12. You're a romantic! And I thought you were the intellectual kind, with a 144 IQ - not that romanticism and intelligence are mutually exclusive,of course...this isn't a one-answer-only question. Personally,I find it hard to believe that there's only one person for you and that you and that person were meant to be - kind of limited,huh? Such belief requires you to believe in fate,which means the sricpt of your life has already been written and you're just an actor who's supposed to carry out your role just as the script dictates. I suppose you're asking this question because you haven't met your soulmate yet. Since it's not a rational thing - love's far from rational - I think that's the kind of thing you feel,deep inside,you can't explain,you just know that that's the person you want to be with. I don't know much about love though...so,it's just a possibility.