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What do you think of soul mates?

What would you say if I told you this story?

A guy and girl meet randomly on the street. They start talking and something keeps them talking until the next morning. People they don't know tell them they are meant for each other. They dreamt about each other before they met, but didn't realize who it was or what it meant until after they met. She had a gut feeling she should be single prior to vacation and even mentioned that to her friend 3 weeks before she left for vacation. From the moment they met, there was a draw, a bond, something that kept them seeing each other. They hardly ate or slept the first two weeks they met. They told each other, and meant it, that they loved each other five days after meeting. They've been told that their souls have traveled together for centeries, really more, since near the beginning of man and that they agreed to meet each other again in this life, which is what they saw in each other when they met on the street.
Also, they almost moved to one another's cities 4 years ago, but then didn't. He almost moved to her city just before she left for vacation to his city, which is where they met randomly on the street.

I'm not sure I believe in soul mates, but if I did, I would think they were. It's just so strange...
Sorry, I had to leave out a lot of details, but that's the bulletpoints.

Public Comments

1. life and relationships are only what you make them to be

2. i truly believe in soul mates... i believe that you fall in love. and you also meet that soul mate ,a soulmate is that person were you feel connected from the soul ,you fall in love in months ,or when no one else in the world maters, and no matter what their flaw is you see the beauty Now that's a soul mate .

3. lucky. serendipity

4. Ask yourself why you want an answer (that, no doubt,you can accept ) to this question. It might save you a lot of heartache.

Most importantly, does he think you are his soulmate?

If the two of you take steps to stay together, respect each other's differences and feelinhgs, bring out the best in each other in other aspects of your life and relationships, and are grounded and happy with yourselves as a couple and individuals, you are meant to be together.

In other words, validate, or work at your spiritual or soulmate connection. What's the point of being soulmates if you can't celebrate waht you have?

I don't think people are perfectly matched, but I speak from the experience of one who lost her 'soul mate' recently because he didn't have the courage or willingness to make anything of our 'connection'. All I can say is you'd be amazed at how two very different people were so in sync. And I know also we will always have that connection even if he is too afraid to explore it. But what came of it? I was willing to do and risk everything to bring him around but he has commitment issues.

I think that if you regard yourselves as soulmates you want to have a longer term relationship and keep it alive, even if it isn't in the traditional form of marriage. The idea of give and take shouldn't threaten it because it was that which brought you together and will sustain it.

I hope the two of you have better luck than me.