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Caught in a love triangle.....Please help?

OK so for the past 3 months or so I've been talking to this guy who lived in a place I used to live. He moved to the west coast and I moved south back to where I origionally lived. <-- (Guy A)

We still talked on the phone and I visited him once. But in that time I think that I've completely fallen head over heals for my best guy friend. (Guy B) We've gotten really close and alot of things have happened and this kid is almost a soul mate to me. I've known him for 8 years.

Thing is this Guy A moved to where I am to be with me and such. Hes really nice and all and I like him alot but with Guy B now in my life as something more than a best friend I dont know what to do.

I don't want to tell Guy A sorry no when he came across the country to be with me and we made all these plans to travel together but I don't see my life going in that direction really anymore. My friend (Guy B) has shown me a world that I thought I had lost long ago and he is like my other half.

HELP? :-(
Forgot to say my friend, (Guy B) knows the whole situation. Its part of that whole best friend thing. So hes not in the dark about my feelings on both fronts.

Public Comments

1. Is it just all about you? Isn't it time to be honest with both of these guys and accept the consequences of your actions?

2. You need to be honest with both of them. Follow your heart. Don't stay with someone who is going to make you unhappy when you could be happy with someone else. It sucks that you got yourself in this in the first place.

3. I think you have already said it, it's just that you are not listening to your own words, your own feelings, your own heart: You are not in love with GUY A. Feelings sometimes change over time; and even if you were in love with GUY A at present, a long-distance relationship is far from ideal and often can be a complete disaster. I don't think though that you should accelerate things with GUY B, take all slowly as rebound relationships don't always end happily either.