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my girlfriend is moving away what should i do?

My gf recently broke it off with me after 2 years (1 living together). After we broke up i was devastated and thought she didnt love me. Then we got back together after she moved out and it was the best thing ever. The 'spark' had reignited & it was better than ever.

The reason y she wants to move is because she isnt going to uni & wants to travel/live life. We talked about doing it together but now she dosnt like the idea of long distance for a year while i finish (tried & failed b4) & i believe she is trying to do it on her own. I dont understand because when we got back together she said she made a massive mistake & i was sure that her love for me was as strong as mine. Is she not interested anymore & should i try to forget about her or try to win her back? Its hard because i havent felt this way about anyone but it is the first time so i guess it will happen again right? It's hard cos on the otherhand i think ive found my 'soul mate' at the young age of 22. is it possible?
she said breaking up with me was the mistake. not our relationship.

Public Comments

1. Break up with her but remain friends.

2. find some new meat

3. then go after her! make sure she knows how much you love her.

4. i think if you really love her you should keep trying to win her back and if it even gets down to it in the end just plain ask her to stay and stake her love on it i know thatll be tough but if its a do or die situation it could be worth it in the end
good luck

5. Its impossible to break up and be friends, if you love her.

It will hold you back.

Honestally, you cant make her want to stay. You cant make her love you. The only thing you can do, is let her go.

If it is ment to be, she will be back. And you will be ready for her.

Or, maybe you will find. That you are happy with someone else.

My Mother did this with her young love. They decided they didnt know if it was for real. They promised eachother they would meet in 3 months. And if they missed eachother, loved eachother, they would be back. She met my dad. He met some woman. And 3 months later they called and agreed the meeting was unneeded.

My Mom and Dad are Friendly with this man and woman. I went to school with their son. No hard feelings.

Sometimes we want things alot. But find there is something better out there for us.

6. It may hurt for awhile, but you
will find someone else in time.

7. she says that she "made a MISTAKE"?? a mistake...wow. no offense, but i personally wouldn't want MY relationship being called a "MISTAKE". sounds to me that if she wants to travel and says ur relationship was a "mistake", then you should get the record straight on her feelings for you. Confront her calmly, and ask her what she wants from you if she's going to go traveling. Perhaps she might be willing enough to wait until you finish up. If she really cares about you, then she should understand any feelings you have about her traveling and appreciate and respect those feelings. Long distance relationships don't often work (as far as i know anyway), so i wouldn't say that her going traveling by herself is the best choice. Why should you have to wait for her...especially (and i'm not saying that this will happen...just throwing it out there) if she finds someone else. Keep in consideration of what YOU want, express your feelings about this, and come to a final decision. Hope things work out for the best!