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I'm 24, single and travel a lot but I'm lonely and needy. How can I meet and enjoy the company of a nice girl?

When I say travel 'a lot' I mean an average of over 2 flights a week (49 this year so far and 107 last year to be exact!). All of it is for work, and much as I know I'm very lucky, I feel very lonely (especially up in the air on those long-haul flights), and find it very hard to form something meaningful with anyone. Even though meeting girls is in itself difficult, the few I have met have all said they wouldn't want anything because i'm simply 'never there'. Aside change jobs is there anything I can do?

Public Comments

1. one answer : chinese hooker

2. Hire a hooker. Pay her enough, she'll be a REALLY "nice" girl, dumbass!

3. Date a flight attendant. j/k. There's not much you can do except date girls who are more independent. That want you in their life rather than need you. That can handle the fact that you're only around on the weekends, etc.

4. Escort girls are the way to go - get loads of condoms!

5. That's a tough one. It's impossible to connect with someone who is never there so it looks like you may have to choose between your career with meaningless flings or giving up your career for a deep relationship.

6. I can't see any options her. Doubtful any one will be able to, let alone want to get involved with you if you are never there. It would be pointless.

7. hmm...not really. unless you stick around in some town more than 25% of the time, you simply don't have the free time to share with a needing woman.

8. may i suggest that you introduce yourself to Vaseline and a movie!!

9. U have to marry n take ur wife along ..no girl would want to love somebody but their love not being for them when they need.its not fair..... when u meet any girl next time n feel u like her, tell her first thing is u r travelling most of time..if she truly loves u, she can wait years n still love u... but dont lev her n travel once married...or best u can do is ask ur boss for change in location so that u dont have to travel that frequent.....time is simply not right for u to take chances..have patience till u r destined to meet somebody nice...everything will be set alright without u asking for

10. Sounds like my type of guy. :-) Well, if you're looking for a relationship, you'll have to look for a girl who is independent and who doesn't mind seeing you very often, like maybe once or twice a week. You'll have to put a lot of effort into phone calls and when you are together though, to compensate. If you're a great guy, and they're not very needy or clingy, you can find someone. Good luck.

11. Make friends on the internet for the places you travel, then when you go there you will have someone to hang out with, it doesnt have to be romantic at first but then maybe something will develop.

12. With the advances in today's technology - there is almost no excuse for not keeping in touch with someone!
If you really like somone and they like you back then you can always email, messenger, web chat or even use old fashioned snail mail to keep in touch. If the right girl came along then she would be willing to stay in touch and see how things work long distance. You could keep in touch with e-friends, and develop friendships that way....
Good luck for the future!

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14. lots of girls would like to have some space from their guy this often (seriously!). be patient and keep looking as love comes when you least expect it. nobody will want to be around someone this needy (no offence - just that girls generally dont like 'needy' that much!)

15. I would'nt worry,your only 24.One day the right girl will come along and she'l wait for you to come home and then maybe you can think about changing your job but don't do it beforehand.